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- Have an honest view of ourselves, too often we see ourselves as less then.
- Choose your ideals carefully, make sure that you select an ideal that is realistic.
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Everything should be made as simple as possible but not simpler
How you describe your estimates is important. The units that you use can imply a certain level of accuracy.
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When using these types of technologies we are confident that the information is real and that because information is in plain sight; you can identify street names and recognise building on a map. You can see and understand the logic behind a calculator and control the formulas on a excel spreadsheet.
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Some of the hardest goals that we set for ourselves are those that are long term. Long term goals require consistent action, over an extended period of time. With long term goals the element of time is unavoidable. In these scenarios time can be used to learn, grow and mature.
In other circumstances time is avoidable, when you are clear on what you want to achieve and the steps that need to be followed; there is no need to wait or procrastinate.
So what can you do with your idle time while you are:
Learn, grow and mature
As I mentioned earlier learning, growing and maturing as a person are associated with long term goals. You might be completing a degree or saving for your first home or training for a marathon. Seeing the end is hard, especially when it is so far away. Imagining what it means to achieve your goals may give you enough motivation and momentum to keep yourself going and stay focused. If you have a long term goal in mind, take some time to think about how:
The small steps you take are leading to-> The lifelong habits you are developing-> How these habit are needed to -> Reach long term goals.
If we are in the latter (b.) we most likely don’t have clarity on what we have to do (i.e. the next action) and there is a deeper reason why we haven’t taken action (usually around fear), but it hasn’t surfaced. A combination of the two is used to make up excuses.
The definition of an excuse is: A justification for not doing something; but it’s not a reason, it’s more of a revision of the facts that you use to make yourself feel better. It’s an alteration of reality.
I recently read The 10x Rule by Grant Cardone and one of my favorite chapters was on excuses. Everybody has excuses and we all have a few that we employ over and over again. So rather than ignore them it’s better that you confront right now.
There is a third way we spend idle time that hasn’t been mentioned up until now.
We need idle time for our mind to be creative, inventive and find solutions to existing problems.
For most of us, when the words ‘solution’, ‘problem’ and even ‘invention’ is mentioned we naturally try to return to a model, or process that exists within our domain. This is not what I am talking about here. In fact, anytime where we are repeating something that we already know; this is not creative.
In its purest form, creative work has no purpose and no outcome; idle time is used to allow your mind to be silent and do nothing. We just need the time and space to let out minds moodle. Now, few of us have this luxury, because we live in an environment where results, productivity and outcomes are king. But think about this…
Capital isn’t so important in business, experience isn’t so important, you can get both these things. What is important is ideas, if you have ideas you have the main assets that you need and there isn’t any limit to what you can do with your business and your life – Harvey Firestone
Understanding how our idle time is spent helps us to identify where our time is being used and what to do. When we are learning, growing and maturing; reflecting upon your goals will help to keep you motivated and focused.
When our time is being wasted on procrastination, identify the next action and drop the excuses to be more productive.
Finally (although it is less understood) allowing our minds the space and silence provides us with an opportunity to generate original ideas and thinking. This act may have greatest value and impact not only in our own lives but the lives of those around us.
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A few months ago I had an idea of writing a blog post on the topic of clutter and distraction. But then I got distracted…
I also had another thought; those that are able to spend more of their time in direct reflection and purposely choosing what to absorb, are more focused and driven towards their goals.
With each passing moment, they are able to decide what’s most important to them and stay focus on its pursuit.
Distraction and Clutter
Distraction is defined as a thing that prevents someone from concentrating on something. Clutter, on the other hand is to cover or fill something (like your mind) with an untidy collection of things.
Sometimes you can have so much clutter that it becomes a distraction from what you are trying to focus on. I then started to think about what it means to have focus; is focus just a matter of removing all of the clutter so that we don’t have any distractions?
I remember reading an article after Kobe Bryant’s last game in Boston. As much as I dislike Mr.Bryant (being a Celtics fan), interviews with his team mates, coaches and his opponents have reveal a common theme.
When it comes to winning, this guy is really really focused. At times (ironic as it sound) it has even come at the detriment of his own team mates. He has been known to walk out of team practices because other weren’t trying hard enough. He has called out his own team mates, asking them to ‘put your big-boy pants on‘ . All in the name winning. If players are not willing to come along on the journey, then he is dragging you along with him.
Nothing conveys his mindset better than a conversation he had with an opposing player, Isaiah Thomas where he shared a rare piece of advice.
Be a Lion.
From Isaiah perspective, this is how the conversation went:
He told me this story about how a lion seeks food, whatever he’s gonna kill and eat.
You know how many bugs are on the lion’s eyes and gnats on his body?
He’s so locked in on that zebra that he doesn’t get distracted by anything else”
If you get distracted by little things, then you’re not as locked in as you think you are.
He said for me to be a lion, and that’s gonna stick with me the rest of my life.
To put this into context, it helps to understand what Kobe had achieved and where Isaiah was in his career.
|Kobe Bryant (age 38)||Isaiah Thomas (age 27)|
|NBA Finals MVP||2||0|
|NBA Most Valuable Player||1||0|
|All-NBA First Team||11||0|
|NBA All-Defensive Team||9||0|
|NBA scoring Champion||2||0|
|NBA Slam Dunk Champion||1||0|
Clutter can be controlled, we just need to be a little wiser with what we absorb and when. Distractions are sometime unavoidable because they can come from an external source, but a lion can conquer both.
Assuming that you have determined what your focus is (i.e. the zebra) and if the focus has enough significance and importance to you. Isn’t it time you ignore the distractions (i.e. the gnats) and looked pass all of the clutter (i.e. the bugs).
Lock in. Go for the kill. Be a Lion.